Did Lela Rochon reconcile with her husband? According MTO News Lela is standing by her man. Last week the internet went wild when pictures of Nicole Murphy popped up with Lela’s husband Antoine Fuqua. Nicole is still catching it, from folks upset that she would do her friend Lela that way. Now Lela and Antoine have been married for some 20 years and have children together, and it looks like Nicole will have to find her own man, because this one looks to be staying with his wife.